{"id":68327,"date":"2023-11-16T18:25:58","date_gmt":"2023-11-16T18:25:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordcelnews.com\/?p=68327"},"modified":"2023-11-16T18:25:58","modified_gmt":"2023-11-16T18:25:58","slug":"im-convinced-my-partner-is-cheating-so-im-planning-my-revenge-the-sun-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordcelnews.com\/lifestyle\/im-convinced-my-partner-is-cheating-so-im-planning-my-revenge-the-sun-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m convinced my partner is cheating, so I\u2019m planning my revenge \u2013 The Sun | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: I\u2019M so convinced my partner is cheating, I\u2019m going to give him a taste of his own medicine by having sex with another guy.<\/p>\n

He told me he is going on a work trip to Paris but I\u2019m 100 per cent sure he\u2019s having an affair with a \u00a0colleague and that\u2019s why he\u2019s going.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve had offers too, but have always refused. Now it\u2019s time to accept one of them.<\/p>\n

My partner is 47 and I\u2019m 45.\u00a0 We have been together for five years.<\/p>\n

The other night when he got home, he looked tired and I noticed that his clothes were dishevelled, like he\u2019d been with another woman.<\/p>\n

He denied it, of course, but I don\u2019t believe him. Two years ago, he went to a conference abroad and admitted he\u2019d had a one-night stand.<\/p>\n

Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n

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I forgave him but haven\u2019t trusted him completely since. Now I am sure history is repeating itself. His co-worker messages him all the time and he\u2019s \u00a0evasive when I mention her.<\/p>\n

As he works late often, I\u2019ve been chatting to men \u00a0online. One of them, who is 35, keeps asking me for no-strings sex. I\u2019ve always said no but now I\u2019ve changed my mind.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m going to message him and ask him to come round while my partner is away. Why should I sit at home like the \u201cgood wife\u201d, feeling alone and \u00a0abandoned while my partner is away having fun?\u00a0<\/p>\n

I do love him but I often feel so unappreciated. Sometimes I wonder if I should leave him.<\/p>\n

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DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>Having sex with someone else might seem like the answer but it won\u2019t make you feel less lonely or unhappy.\u00a0<\/p>\n

It will just leave you feeling more confused \u2013 and it certainly won\u2019t help repair your relationship.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have proof your partner has cheated or intends to cheat, just a gut feeling. What\u2019s clear is there\u2019s no trust in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s time to walk away, so focus on that decision before complicating matters.<\/p>\n

You still love him, so tell him how you feel and ask him to work on your relationship together. See my support pack Cheating, Can you Get Over It?<\/p>\n

Couples counselling would be beneficial. Find a counsellor \u00a0at tavistock\u00a0relationships.org\u00a0(020 7380 1975).<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re lonely when he works late or goes away, take up a hobby or join a group \u2013 something more fulfilling than talking to strangers online.<\/p>\n

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