{"id":66416,"date":"2023-09-05T17:33:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-05T17:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordcelnews.com\/?p=66416"},"modified":"2023-09-05T17:33:00","modified_gmt":"2023-09-05T17:33:00","slug":"i-quit-work-for-my-husband-he-has-a-funny-way-of-thanking-me-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordcelnews.com\/lifestyle\/i-quit-work-for-my-husband-he-has-a-funny-way-of-thanking-me-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I quit work for my husband – he has a funny way of thanking me | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband has repaid my support and love by wining and dining another woman. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m convinced he\u2019s also been having sex with her.<\/p>\n

About five years ago he had a breakdown and was struggling to perform in the bedroom.<\/p>\n

It really got me down, but I encouraged him to see his doctor and he got tablets for depression, which seemed to help.<\/p>\n

He asked me to give up work so that our lives would be calmer and I could support him more.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s 54 and has a stressful job as a managing director for a car parts business. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m 51 and I loved my job as a nurse, but I agreed to help him.<\/p>\n

That wasn\u2019t the only compromise, because as well as dealing with his low moods, he continued to struggle to perform in the bedroom. <\/p>\n

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Our sex life all but dried up for a while.<\/p>\n

Again, I told him it didn\u2019t matter and I regularly tried to make him feel good with kissing, caressing and massage. <\/p>\n

In return, we explored ways he could still satisfy me. He bought me a sex toy for my birthday and I thought he was coming to terms with his health issues.<\/p>\n

Now I wonder if he\u2019s been telling me the truth at all. Recently, he went to work and forgot his mobile. <\/p>\n

So he called me from work and asked me to turn it off.<\/p>\n

When I picked it up there were nine missed calls and several unread texts from a woman.<\/p>\n

She mentioned what a good kisser he was. <\/p>\n

One message even said she was looking forward to \u201cmore fun\u201d. I was horrified.<\/p>\n

I feel devastated that I\u2019ve been so kind to him and this is how he repays me. <\/p>\n

Should I leave him?<\/p>\n

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DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span> Not without talking to him and demanding some answers.<\/p>\n

His self-esteem is likely to be at rock bottom as he struggles with depression and erectile dysfunction, but that isn\u2019t an excuse for betraying you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re feeling wretched and you\u2019ve considered leaving because you\u2019re reeling, but don\u2019t rule out that you won\u2019t always feel this way.<\/p>\n

Arrange to see a counsellor where you can rage in private \u2013 then ask him to accompany you and work on rebuilding your marriage.<\/p>\n

It feels unforgivable but a fling doesn\u2019t have to mean the end. It can be the beginning of a more solid marriage.<\/p>\n

My support pack Cheating \u2013 Can You Get Over It? shows where to find help.<\/p>\n

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