I'm convinced that my boyfriend would get back with his ex if he could

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM convinced my boyfriend would get back with his ex if he could.

My fella and I are 31 and have been together for six months. His ex is 28.


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They broke up after four years because of having to be in a long-distance relationship.

She had returned to her native America to take over her family’s business.

They often FaceTime but my boyfriend always says they are just friends.

But can anyone really just be “friends” with their ex?

I find it hard to believe after seeing photos of her.

She’s gorgeous – so much younger and slimmer than me. It has made me feel so insecure.

I bet he fantasises about her when he’s having sex with me.

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Part of me wants to tell him to cut her out of his life but it’s still such early days in our relationship.

The last thing I want to do is put him off by coming across as jealous and controlling. Help!

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Hopefully, he will put your mind at rest and reassure you that he loves you, not his ex-girlfriend.

After all, if they wanted to be together, then they would be.

Remember, you are his girlfriend now. He has chosen you.

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