DEAR DEIDRE: I WILL only have sex with my husband when I am drunk. He is sexy and I love him, so why can’t I loosen up?
I’m 34 and he is 36.
We’ve been married for eight years and he is my best friend.
I used to be a bit of a party animal and all the relationships I had before him were purely for sex.
My husband hasn’t said anything, but I think he realises this is a pattern I follow. I don’t know how to talk to him about it.
For some reason, my independent self won’t let my inhibitions go with him when I am sober. I want to have sex without alcohol. But how?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Alcohol lowers inhibitions, giving you the confidence to flirt with people then engage in sex.
While alcohol can stimulate sexual appetite, it is a dangerous prop to lean on, as it can lead to long-term health problems.
You have hidden behind the veil of alcohol, so it can be scary to be sober.
Suggest to him you give each other a sensuous massage as a healthy way to stimulate the senses. My support pack Couples’ Massage explains more.
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