DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS horrified to witness my husband planting a kiss on another woman’s lips.
Now I’m confused and anxious, wondering if something is going on between them.
I’m 40 and he’s 42. We’ve been married for 15 years and have two sons.
He’s always been a good dad and husband, and I’ve never had reason not to trust him.
For the last year, he’s been helping out at the rugby club our sons attend.
Last week, I went to pick them all up, as his car was in the garage. I stood waiting till the end.
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He gave a few of the mums a peck on the cheek goodbye.
That didn’t bother me. But then one particular mum came to say goodbye, and he gave her a hug and a kiss on the lips.
It didn’t look like an accident, as they didn’t look awkward or jump apart.
Afterwards, it bothered me so much, I asked my husband about it. He said he didn’t even remember.
Now I’m wondering if he’s lying, and am questioning just how close they are.
Am I overreacting? Or is this totally inappropriate? Could they be having an affair?
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DEIDRE SAYS: This has clearly unnerved you. But there’s no reason to think there’s anything going on.
It was in public, he knew you were there, and his sons were also present.
Some people routinely kiss friends and family on the lips. Perhaps this woman is one of them.
To you, it feels overfamiliar but that doesn’t mean there’s anything sexual to it.
If it’s making you doubt your husband, though, you need to talk to him again.
My support pack Looking After Your Relationship will help you communicate, and perhaps agree boundaries on this sort of thing.
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